An Entire Day Wasted

My name is Jennifer Mesa, but people call me Jenny. I <3 Harry Potter, theatre, food, sleeping, and college. SLYTHERIN! SIX CATS.

mellow-sleep:

aluox:

blood-mages-anonymous:

x-the-fault-in-our-scars-x:

aluox:

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I don’t understand why but I really hate this shade of blue

God it’s actually making me uncomfortable

No I am uncomfortable. As a color deficient person I almost never see the color blue and that is the bluest blue that has ever blued.

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I believe our internal frustration with this stems from the fact that it is very similar to a certain type of computer message

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do you feel the anger and frustration?

(via konnfusion)

shredtheaqua:

You know a girl is mad when she starts off her sentence saying “I just find it funny how ” because there’s a 99.9% chance she did not find it funny.

(via fuckingplebe)

averagefairy:

moms are so temperamental you say one thing like “have you seen my hoodie” and theyre like your HOODIE??? YOUR HOODIE???? DO YOU KNOW HOW MANY THINGS I HAVE TO DO EVERY DAY AND YOU THINK I HAVE TIME TO KEEP TRACK OF YOUR HOODIE? NOBODY HELPS ME IN THIS HOUSE I DO EVERYTHING BY MYSELF AND NOBODY ASKS HOW I AM YOUR FATHER IS AN ALCOHOLIC 

(via dlanobrienn)

muirin007:

itsanexperimentjohn:

hopelessfangirl

nuclearbummer
:

this is my new favorite video

Hercules reads his script entirely wrong
(reads the word disappointed, when he was supposed to sound disappointed)

New favorite thing to say when disappointed. 

I shout this all the time and I am only 70% sure people understand the reference

The best part about this whole thing is that the editors just kept it in the final version. God bless those editors.

(via justsimplyx)

kristoffbjorgman:

mrhaliboot:

lovin-elsanna:

exixiii:

frickfractals:

elsanna-fanboy:

painting-the-town:

in which elsa is a drug dealer

ELSA sells ice = crack

WE CRACKED THE CODE OF FROZEN

This movie is literally covered in cocaine

Anna jumping upon mounds of cocaine

Elsa covering Arendelle in cocaine

Elsa creating two creatures out of magical living cocaine

Anna being shot in the heart with a blast of cocaine

Thats why Hans got so messed up after Elsa revealed her powers!

You all need to seek professional help.

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well that would certainly explain the Sven voice

(via justsimplyx)

kazifer:

gender-fucking:

rcmclachlan:

doodlyood:

spinachandrice:

theonewholovesbooks:

thatfilthyanimal:

fawnthefeminist:

Young women are having difficulty accessing tubal ligation, despite it being a relatively safe (death rate is 1-2 per 100,000) and elective surgery.

There is a waiting period of 30 days for women seeking tubal ligation, yet no waiting period for men seeking vasectomies. 
(Source)


Young women are often discriminated against when seeking sterilization. Many doctors ask offensive questions (“What if you met a billionaire who wanted to have kids with you?”), state categorically that their patients are too young to consider the surgery, and generally act as though, as one woman who tried unsuccessfully to be sterilized at the age of 21 in the U.K. put it, ”just because I was a woman, I’d reach a point where an urge to breed would overcome all rational thought.” (Perhaps unsurprisingly, that woman’s 25-year-old husband faced no such presumptions when he asked his doctor for a vasectomy. The procedure was quickly approved.)
(Source)


Say that at 18 I slap down enough money so I could have my whole body covered head-to-toe in tattoos, piercings all over myself, a mountain of cigarettes, plastic surgery, and plan to have like 20 babies… but if I try at all to safely make it impossible for me to breed for the sake of my health suddenly its like WOAH THERE SLOW DOWN MISSY YOU’RE NOT READY FOR THIS KIND OF COMMITMENT YET

I have stage III Endometriosis, which means I have to get my uterus removed because I literally have terrible cramps ALL THE TIME and not just when I’m on my period. Now, I’ve always said I don’t want any children for personal reasons and I don’t need my uterus, really. I am not worried about that surgery and I don’t feel any kind of nostalgia over an organ I won’t ever use. 
The thing is, my doctor is a ‘man’. This ‘man’ told me I had to get pregnant right now before it’s too late. I told him I didn’t want to get pregnant and explained the multiple reasons but what, do you ask, did my doctor have to say about this? 'Well, better have a kid now because just imagine how depressing it must be being a thirty-something woman without children and a husband?'
I was diagnosed a year ago. I should have gone through surgery six months ago and I still can’t find a doctor that will perform the surgery without trying to force me to have children first. Basically, if you’re a woman you don’t have a say in what can and cannot be done to your body without a shitload of people getting in the way AND I’M FUCKING SICK OF IT.

Women are getting non-consensually sterilized in prison but no doctors in my area while tie my tubes at 24 because I might regret it? Fuck you, doctors. I have more purpose in life than dropping babies. Some of those women in prison are probably great moms and I have no interest in parenting. Let us have a say!

A dear friend of mine wanted to have her tubes tied.  She was about to give birth to twins and the doctors wouldn’t consent because she wasn’t 21 yet.  She had already had children and they still refused to let her have the procedure.

My friend got a vasectomy a week after asking his doctor for one, no problem. He was 25.
Me? I’ve asked 4 different doctors for some kind of permanent sterilisation—tubal ligation or Essure or whatever—and I get a pat on the head and a “You’d regret it if you did.”
Oh, DIDN’T REALIZE YOU HAD A DIRECT LINE TO MY BRAIN.

I’ve had doctors tell me that ‘no one in their right mind will agree to do this to you until you’re at least 30” when I asked how I would go about getting this, because my periods cause such intense down swings of depression and dysphroia that no matter how far into recovery i am I become suicidal every time. “No doctor in their right mind” would give me literally the only medical option to save me 7 days of suicidal and self-harm behavior, just because of my age.

I’ve only approached my doctor about this once, and I received such a violent response that I haven’t felt safe bringing it up again. “You’re 18, what do you know? You’ll want kids when you’re older. Every woman does.”
Well first off I’m not a woman, thanks. And secondly, I experience terrible periods - I’m extremely symptomatic, in addition to crippling dysphoria. 
Since I was 14 I’ve said I didn’t want kids. I helped raise my nephew from birth to 2 years and it was hell. I’m 99.9% sure that I had a miscarriage when I was 16. I felt nothing but relief.
I don’t want children. I’ve never wanted children. I was raised in an abusive home and I am smart enough to realize that if I had my own kids I’m more likely to treat them in a way no kid deserves. 
But even disclosing this information gets me nowhere. I’m treated as unnatural for not wanting children. I’m not asking for a heart transplant. All I want is a hysterectomy. How hard is that?

kazifer:

gender-fucking:

rcmclachlan:

doodlyood:

spinachandrice:

theonewholovesbooks:

thatfilthyanimal:

fawnthefeminist:

Young women are having difficulty accessing tubal ligation, despite it being a relatively safe (death rate is 1-2 per 100,000) and elective surgery.

There is a waiting period of 30 days for women seeking tubal ligation, yet no waiting period for men seeking vasectomies. 

(Source)

Young women are often discriminated against when seeking sterilization. Many doctors ask offensive questions (“What if you met a billionaire who wanted to have kids with you?”), state categorically that their patients are too young to consider the surgery, and generally act as though, as one woman who tried unsuccessfully to be sterilized at the age of 21 in the U.K. put it, ”just because I was a woman, I’d reach a point where an urge to breed would overcome all rational thought.” (Perhaps unsurprisingly, that woman’s 25-year-old husband faced no such presumptions when he asked his doctor for a vasectomy. The procedure was quickly approved.)

(Source)

Say that at 18 I slap down enough money so I could have my whole body covered head-to-toe in tattoos, piercings all over myself, a mountain of cigarettes, plastic surgery, and plan to have like 20 babies… but if I try at all to safely make it impossible for me to breed for the sake of my health suddenly its like WOAH THERE SLOW DOWN MISSY YOU’RE NOT READY FOR THIS KIND OF COMMITMENT YET

I have stage III Endometriosis, which means I have to get my uterus removed because I literally have terrible cramps ALL THE TIME and not just when I’m on my period. Now, I’ve always said I don’t want any children for personal reasons and I don’t need my uterus, really. I am not worried about that surgery and I don’t feel any kind of nostalgia over an organ I won’t ever use. 

The thing is, my doctor is a ‘man’. This ‘man’ told me I had to get pregnant right now before it’s too late. I told him I didn’t want to get pregnant and explained the multiple reasons but what, do you ask, did my doctor have to say about this? 'Well, better have a kid now because just imagine how depressing it must be being a thirty-something woman without children and a husband?'

I was diagnosed a year ago. I should have gone through surgery six months ago and I still can’t find a doctor that will perform the surgery without trying to force me to have children first. Basically, if you’re a woman you don’t have a say in what can and cannot be done to your body without a shitload of people getting in the way AND I’M FUCKING SICK OF IT.

Women are getting non-consensually sterilized in prison but no doctors in my area while tie my tubes at 24 because I might regret it? Fuck you, doctors. I have more purpose in life than dropping babies. Some of those women in prison are probably great moms and I have no interest in parenting. Let us have a say!

A dear friend of mine wanted to have her tubes tied.  She was about to give birth to twins and the doctors wouldn’t consent because she wasn’t 21 yet.  She had already had children and they still refused to let her have the procedure.

My friend got a vasectomy a week after asking his doctor for one, no problem. He was 25.

Me? I’ve asked 4 different doctors for some kind of permanent sterilisation—tubal ligation or Essure or whatever—and I get a pat on the head and a “You’d regret it if you did.”

Oh, DIDN’T REALIZE YOU HAD A DIRECT LINE TO MY BRAIN.

I’ve had doctors tell me that ‘no one in their right mind will agree to do this to you until you’re at least 30” when I asked how I would go about getting this, because my periods cause such intense down swings of depression and dysphroia that no matter how far into recovery i am I become suicidal every time. “No doctor in their right mind” would give me literally the only medical option to save me 7 days of suicidal and self-harm behavior, just because of my age.

I’ve only approached my doctor about this once, and I received such a violent response that I haven’t felt safe bringing it up again. “You’re 18, what do you know? You’ll want kids when you’re older. Every woman does.”

Well first off I’m not a woman, thanks. And secondly, I experience terrible periods - I’m extremely symptomatic, in addition to crippling dysphoria. 

Since I was 14 I’ve said I didn’t want kids. I helped raise my nephew from birth to 2 years and it was hell. I’m 99.9% sure that I had a miscarriage when I was 16. I felt nothing but relief.

I don’t want children. I’ve never wanted children. I was raised in an abusive home and I am smart enough to realize that if I had my own kids I’m more likely to treat them in a way no kid deserves. 

But even disclosing this information gets me nowhere. I’m treated as unnatural for not wanting children. I’m not asking for a heart transplant. All I want is a hysterectomy. How hard is that?

(via justsimplyx)